How Rude.

I have a few pet peeves. Okay so that’s a lie, I have A LOT of pet peeves. I think my biggest pet peeve is rude people. Do have any consideration for the people around them? There is no reason to mean to everyone.  If you are constantly putting people down to make yourself better stop because you’re making yourself look dumb. Plus no one likes mean people, at least no one SHOULD like mean people.  I have experienced a lot of rude people in my life. I’m going to share a few examples just to show you how inconsiderate and rude they are.  I am not going to share names because that would be rude of me.

One day in math class, our teacher was passing out papers and there is an autistic kid in this class, well kudos to him for being in an advanced math class, but that is beside the point. This girl that sits behind him starts yelling at him! She’s saying “would you just stop shaking and pass back the damn papers?!” seriously?! That’s all I have to say…. I mean poor kid. This girl was so inconsiderate because she is yelling at someone that is autistic but in the same math class as her, so stop being rude to your peers. Everyone deserves the same amount of respect you would want so treat them with respect, cause if you are treating them like this girl was treating this boy, I have absolutely NO respect for you.

A few months ago I was Hyvee and this family consisted of 2 moms and about 5 children total.  They were using 2 carts with about 5 things in each which is fine but they could have used just one. The next thing I noticed was their children screaming and running around knocking thins off of the shelves not caring to put it back. The youngest one was crying and they didn’t do anything about it. They put their carts next to each other and sideways in the isle so not a single person could get through.  The world does not revolve around them but they were acting like it does. I was parked relatively close to them I notice they just left their carts in the parking spot. That is not only inconsiderate to the workers that have to collect all of the carts but it is also rude to the person that is looking for a parking spot in a busy place.

At my friend’s birthday dinner, we went out to Texas Road House, This one friend had asked if she could bring her boyfriend. The birthday girl politely said “no, this is a girl’s night out. If you would rather go hang out with your boyfriend fine but don’t come.” The friend got really mad about it and when the dinner party rolled around she brought her boyfriend anyway.  How rude?! But into the night she was being really loud and obnoxious like the night was about her. No it was about the birthday girl. She ordered her food and then sent it back because her steak wasn’t rare enough and she was just really demanding and the poor waiter was new! He was doing his best, I felt so bad for him. After the dinner was over she was one of the first people to leave and after she did leave we all apologized to the waiter on her behave because we all felt really bad. She didn’t even tip him so we all chipped in to tip him really well.  You cannot act like that at a restraint. It is one of the things that drive waiters and waitresses crazy! You also always need to tip them. They are doing everything you ask and the best they can, the least you can do is pay them for their hard work. Even if you have a really bad waiter you still need to tip him or her.

Over all there are going to be rude people everywhere you go. The best thing you can do is always be considerate to other people. Respect people you don’t know, for example don’t be snotty to a worker that is trying to help you, or the people around you in a public place. Some other things you can do, say please and thank you to anyone helping you, don’t budge in line, don’t be extremely obnoxious. Etc.  If you see rude people you don’t need to up them and start chaos but just know that they are in the wrong. Always be nice to people that are nice to you. Treat people the way you want to be treated. It not that hard to do to make this society better, the less rude people the happier other people will be.
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